Realization!

"Although we have our family, friends, relatives by nature's way we are generally seperated from one another. The reason for this is that every living entity appears on this Earth under different pressures of fruitive activities. Although they assemble together, there is no certainity of their remaining together for a long time." - Gita.

So true!

Like the creepers which are formed together on river waters, move to different sides with the currents. They meet again after sometime or may never meet.

Today, I felt that the love, I have for my family, friends and relatives is true and really care them and hope God showers His blessings over them.
I need not be meeting them daily.
Infact I never meet few of my friends.
I may not call them at all.
But it doesnt mean that I illtreat them or neglect them.
Iam not omnipresent. I may be engagued in something which I feel important or which gives me happiness.

Its better rather than being with them and neglecting their presence, ill treating them and spoiling the real meaning of love or friendship.
I believe we should never take one's feelings for granted or override their opinions.
Everybody is equal!

Why?

Why this life b'comin hell..
Why jailin me in a shell..

Why it made me static..
Why everythin became hectic..

Why in me , this antipathy...
Donno whom shall I ask, Why?

Why my freedom is at stake?
When I haven't done any mistake..

Is this a deadly caveat?
Don't mind i wanna break out..

Am I goin to fail?
Still my ship is goin to sail...

Let the perilous storm take over..
Iam gonna sail forever and ever...

The Road Less Taken!

Why do we crave for some opportunity and when it is right in front of us, we try to ignore it. Why we find reasons to postpone it, why we see the negatives , why we FEAR ?
Today I have encountered the same situation.
I have a long list of wishes or " I want to"s, each as diverse as possible from others.
I have argued many a times that having a broad list is good, as you have better reasons to live life to the fullest and you may get hit with the tangible path to your dream at any point of time.

Today , I have got an option to take a different path in my career.I felt it was the best interview i gave as i had to tell my interests and what i have done with interest all these years. Gladly I have been selected for the role.

But, why do I think there is much time to do these things in life. Why do I think its not my cup of tea? Why do I think the path is not going to take me high? Why?

Is it because I am afraid of taking risk? Is it because I feel insecure? Is it because i FEAR?

Well I shouldnt be after reading the chapter Six Ghosts Of Fear from Think and Grow Rich by Napolean Hill.

Remember, Life is too short to be on routine and Life is too long to make mistakes and learn from them.

So I have decided to see the option positively, work double harder, reach my goals quicker. If its the worst mistake I have ever done. So What? I have a long life ahead of me to correct myself and go on.
A life spent making mistakes is more honourable than a life spent doing nothing.

I have decide to go on the ROAD LESS TAKEN!
Lets see!

Is Man Wise?

My amateur attempt during my adolescence ...

Is Man Wise?

Till man was born,
we had generations of life,
it was upto ape,it was upto corn,
everybody was happy,everything was safe.

The day he started thinking,
He gained knowledge,
stars of intelligence were twinkling,
He invented wheel and sledge.

He moved from place to place,
He lived in groups,in caves,
He recognized face and race,
He started making slaves.

Quarrels for lands,
killed the innocent,
with evil shook his hands,
for destruction huge amount was spent.

Alas! what a fate?
result was world war ,
Countries realized,but too late,
Ecobalance was out of bar.

Through this,man made a big injury,
to the environment,
and the nature has shown its fury,
there were floods and there was drought.

So, Earth is not your playground,
It is home creatures of all size,
Before you do anything , please look around,
Everybody please be wise , wise and wise!

Tough Transition

Transition is painful, many a times. Not very recently I have realized the importance of having value for your word, your own individuality, your aura in a group and the negative impact of pretentions. I was helpless. How can I gain them? The house iam living is having foundation called "submissivenss", with walls called " complacency" and roof called "good guy image". It was built through many years. The foundation was made strong by the little events of my early childhood , the way i was raised, the way my mind percieved the relations and happenings in my circle. Recently I have read that the first 5 years of child decide his next 60 years of life.

Submissiveness, is not taking responcibility, is seeing yourself incapable, is a smooth criminal!!
Adds to it the complacent nature, seeing positive in your incapability, ameliorating your cowardliness. The root cause is the "good guy syndrome", presenting your softer side to the world suppressing your emotions, your individuality and the worst part is that you wouldnot be aware of it.

The critical part of my transition is the awareness. Iam happy that my life gave me a divine oppurtunity in the form of love, to be sentient.Many a situations have become tough for me to deal.The reason was in camaflouge. An infinite "WHY's" helped me find an answer called "Submissiveness".

Then followed an infinite "How's". I was depressed. I couldnt find an answer, within my self. How would I? My faculty of thought, my intuition was all based on my childhood experiences. I have asked my friends, I have read books and articles. To develop "Assertiveness".
tips given by my friends:
1) Be a decision maker.
2) Ask for opinions on your say.
3)Take the blame.
4)Being straight with someone doesnt mean disrespecting him, but is respecting yourself.
Now all that required is putting them in practice.

Transition is indeed tough!